The flavour of a life phase

We cross through stages in life. You may call it stages or chapters. Each life stage has got its own taste and flavour.

We many times judge that life phase. We want it to be this way. We wish if we could do this and that. Then we feel like we are not enough and not worthy.

But then we forget that life has stages and phases. Appreciate the flavour of that particular phase you are in. Reflect on it from a distance. Gain its wisdoms and lessons. There is no any situation that happens in your life without a lesson for you to learn and grow from.

At the end life keeps changing and moving on. But how can we realize the flavour of a life phase we are at? Interestingly this needs some private contemplation practice.

Close your eyes for a moment. Look at your life phase as if you are watching a movie inside a cinema theatre. What is happening there? Who are the people involved? What are the daily emotions you feel? What are the sweet and hard moments included? What are you doing? What is your role in that life phase? What are the support and divine blessings you are receiving? Look at the switch of your life phase turning from one point to another. Check on your internal faith and belief in that situation. How grounded and centred you are? How are you operating from the inside out?

When you do this process, the complaining and judging of the situation reduces. You realize you are in that life stage because of the inner transformation and growth that needs to happen in you. Take it slowly. One step at a time. Stop the blame and guilt. Stop the never enough and why this had to happen. Look at it using the overall big picture thinking.