How is Your Relationship Cup?

I really like this idea I learned from Dr. Gary Chapman when he said: Each one of us has got a love tank that needs to be filled through the primary love language used by us.

If your love language is words of affirmation, your love tank will never be filled unless your spouse shares his thoughts and emotions with you.

But if your love language is acts of service, your love tank could be filled when your spouse does actions to support you like doing the dishes, taking your car for service or babysitting the kids when you are out.

It is interesting when you tune your perspective towards relationships. And most importantly is when you shift your focus from yourself to the other person’s primary love language.

To learn more about the ideas mentioned in this post, I refer you to Dr. Gary Chapman’s book: The five love languages.