Love is all there is!
Sometimes when you face difficult situations and not sure what to do or say, remember this: Love is all there is. Its always love when you are stuck in one spot. It is always love when you are confused what to do. It is always love when you doubt yourself.
Then we wonder: if I use this concept with pure intentions, what if people would hate me, get disappointed or feel bad? Well that actually doesn’t matter. You see, people walk lives in different directions. They embark different paths. And the options and choice they take are also different. If that is the case, so on what basis we base our thoughts, actions, beliefs and ideas on other people thinking and feelings?
I always like to remember these meanings of some of the recites from the Holy Book of Quran: focus on Allah instead of them. Refer to his divinity instead of other people illusions. Everyone here are dead. The only one who truly exists forever is our only one God. If you refer to those enlightening meanings, you would see your daily actions and deeds would follow that automatically.
However, you may think that life is sometimes unfair and misleading. The life events confuse you and make you create misleading interpretations. That is ok. But the important thing to remember here is to question those interpretations. Don’t let them just sit in you without processing and reflecting. You have got every right to challenge them and ask deep and thoughtful questions. By doing that, you gain personal ownership over your thoughts, feelings and values.
So finally what is it you would choose, love or fear? Expansion or shrinking? looking ahead or thinking short term? Give away or tightly close? Lovingly accept or fearfully reject and hide? Those inner questions, only you get to work with them.