Love or fear?

We all have different understandings and interpretations of love and fear. Some use fear to justify love. Some use love to manipulate and convince. However you can’t mix the two. It is either love or fear.

If you see a couple living with eachother, just for the sake of living and moving on, that is fear. But if you notice a couple open with eachother, accepting, honest and respectful to eachother’s needs and situations, that is love.

When love is needy that is not love. That is a need to keep something because you are scared of losing it. When love is manipulating, that is not love. That is a need to get something or convince a person of your idea because of your attachment to your worldview.

It is necessery to learn again about love and fear and how they confuse people when living. You might think: If I revisit and question my understanding of love and fear, I might lose the people I love. It doesn’t matter the worries and concerns. To know and have the information and knowledge of love and fear can be valuable for our own personal transformation and for the future generations too.