Just Allow

There are those situations that require you to allow and let go of resistance and clinging.

Examples of those situations are when you want to do it all yourself, when you want things to be perfect, when you think you do it better than others and on and on.

After lots of falling back and forward, I realized it doesn’t work anymore. Resisting and trying to hold on to your specific expectations can often result to unnecessary conflict and drama.

In such a context, the best thing you can do is sit back, relax, let go and allow. Give chances to others to do the part you have been doing. Involve others in your daily activities. Don’t make it all about you. Because no matter what, you remain a weak and vulnerable human being. You are not perfect and you never will be. So why struggle and resist?

Yes, at the beginning of this process, you would struggle, worry, doubt and double check if the tasks are done well. But later with patience and practice, you identify your priorities. You realize the tasks you should be doing and the tasks to be delegated. You find your core essence and truth. You find the necessary private time to reflect and contemplate. And finally the nature would automatically bring to you the purposeful and meaningful role that you were originally created to do.