How to Miss Your Loved Ones?

This could be a question that surprises you. But don’t you want to miss your loved ones? Don’t you long for space and gap to look at your loved ones with fresh eyes? Don’t you want to observe your loved one from a distance as a new person performing and pursuing their passion?

This is something you might struggle with if your childhood bonding and security were shaky. But the best part with it is you getting to know yourself and your loved one individually and separately.

I hate it when people say: You should do it together. You should go out together. You should be together all the time.

That is actually not the case. There are many life events that loved ones need to go separate ways and then come back together longing and loving each other even more.

So stop blaming yourself or doubting. You have a separate and individual self. It is ok to want a separate me time. It is alright to sit alone with your thoughts sometimes. It is fine to do activities and sometimes takes decisions on your own without 24/7 engagement of your loved one. At the end, you both are unique and separate individuals with separate needs and preferences who learn and grow individually and collectively.