Have to do or Choose to do?

One of the common beliefs today is many people believe they have no choice in the life they are leading. They think that whatever is given to them is their final destiny and they have no personal choice in it whether it is work, relationships, education, parenting, lifestyle or any other area in your life.

This is closely related to a victim mindset. You surrender. You accept what you have. You believe that is the only thing available. You stop searching for new ideas. Then you complain, blame and give your personal power away to other people, organizations, systems and structures.

If we wait for a second. Reflect and think for a moment. Do I have to continue doing what I do today? What if I have a choice in the kind of life I am living today? If I stop complaining and blaming others and I just focus on myself, what will I be doing today?

It is interesting to start asking such reflective questions. It opens you up to other solutions and opportunities you never thought exist. It gives you hope and spark to start living again with intention and truth coming from the depth of your heart and soul.