Everyone Don’t Matter

Previously my mindset was: What everyone is doing gotta be the right thing. I must fit in. I must find my place in the tribe whether in school, college or work. If I don’t fit in, I don’t belong and I would be abandoned.

Then later, with life experiences and realizing truth threads when life hits you with hard life lessons, you find out that actually what everyone do doesn’t matter.

What matters is what resonates best with you personally and what is in your core inside you. You may call it your knowing, guts or instinct.

In many cases, it might scare you to get to know your personal knowing. That’s why you see majority think its strange to look at themselves in the mirror or talk to themselves.

But believe it or not, each one of us has got a separate individuality. Although Allah created us in groups, tribes and communities, still each one of us has got that different and unique part of ourselves.

You may think: If I show my differences and real truth as a person, I would be rejected and not accepted in where I exist. This is what I call personalizing and making everything and everyone so personal to you.

If that is really the case, then why when you die, suddenly you become alienated from everyone and everything? People, friends, families, spouses, children and loved ones all become disconnected from you.

Possessions like your home, certificates, qualifications, profession, work and whatever you had in life become worthless in that moment.

What remain is your deeds and impact on others. What remains is what you did wholeheartedly and authentically for your heart, soul, spirituality and ever lasting life in the other world.

Continue reflecting and processing about everyone, the peer pressure and your relationship with that. Because in the process of that, your truth comes out clear, pure and recovered.