Lack of Trust in Relationships
There is this invisible myth that says: You can’t take care of yourself. Let me take care of you. Let me safeguard you. I know what is best for you. We are one in everything.
This just shows the lack of trust in relationships. It suppresses the unique and individualized personality of the person. It also creates a shield in the relationship where people would hide, numb and keep quite.
I hate these type of relationships where the communication is only one way. It breaks my heart when people use titles and roles in the relationship to manipulate and control.
Adding awareness to this is the first step to understand what is it, how it started, what is the foundation behind it and do you actually want to continue living like this or you would rather put some changes?